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Crushed and Lit

Uriel ben Avraham
Uriel ben Avraham
February 27, 2026

Crushed and Lit

The olive oil had to be beaten. That’s the detail I keep coming back to — not pressed, not filtered, but כָּתִית, katit, crushed by hand until it ran clear.

The first instruction in this week’s parsha, Tetzaveh, before the priestly garments, before the consecration, before any of the ceremony, is about olive oil:

וְאַתָּ֞ה תְּצַוֶּ֣ה ׀ אֶת־בְּנֵ֣י יִשְׂרָאֵ֗ל וְיִקְח֨וּ אֵלֶ֜יךָ שֶׁ֣מֶן זַ֥יִת זָ֛ךְ כָּתִ֖ית לַמָּא֑וֹר לְהַעֲלֹ֥ת נֵ֖ר תָּמִֽיד׃ You shall further instruct the Israelites to bring you clear oil of beaten olives for lighting, for kindling lamps regularly.

Shemot 27:20

Ner tamid — the eternal light. Every synagogue has one. The Torah’s version isn’t electric. Aaron and his sons tended it every evening and every morning, a light that burned from dusk to dawn. The oil had to come from olives that were crushed.

There’s a midrash that compares Israel to an olive. Other fruits give their best when they’re fresh. The olive gives its best when it’s pressed.

This past weekend was the last of Darom BaLev — “South at Heart” — the flower festival in the communities along the Gaza border. For almost twenty years it was called Darom Adom, “Red South,” after the scarlet anemones that carpet the Negev every February. The name was a play on the red alert sirens that punctuated life in the region.

After October 7, the name carried too much. They changed it.

But the flowers came back. They always do. Fields around Kibbutz Be’eri and Re’im and Shokeda Forest bloomed red again this year, and people came from across the country to walk through them.

Yaki Sagi, a baker from Be’eri, packed picnic baskets with vegetable pies and chocolate babka, the way he has for years, and said something that stays with me: the hostages are home, people are happier, and it’s time to lift your head and look ahead.

Tetzaveh means “you shall command,” but the root tzav carries a second meaning. Connection. The choshen, the breastplate worn over the heart, held twelve stones engraved with the names of the twelve tribes:

וְנָשָׂ֣א אַ֠הֲרֹ֠ן אֶת־שְׁמ֨וֹת בְּנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֜ל בְּחֹ֧שֶׁן הַמִּשְׁפָּ֛ט עַל־לִבּ֖וֹ בְּבֹא֣וֹ אֶל־הַקֹּ֑דֶשׁ לְזִכָּרֹ֥ן לִפְנֵֽי־יְהֹוָ֖ה תָּמִֽיד׃ Aaron shall carry the names of the sons of Israel on the breastpiece of decision over his heart, when he enters the sanctuary, for remembrance before GOD at all times.

Shemot 28:29

L’zikaron — for remembrance. The same root as zachor. Shabbat Zachor, the Shabbat before Purim, when we read the command to remember what Amalek did. Two kinds of remembrance in the same week: the names on the heart, and the evil you must not forget.

Aaron didn’t carry those names as a memorial. He carried them as a living register — every tribe present when he stood before God.

I think about the baker from Be’eri packing chocolate babka into a picnic basket, knowing exactly whose hands won’t be reaching for it this year. That’s a kind of priestly service. The act of showing up to tend something beautiful in a place that has been crushed.

This is also the only parsha in the Torah — after Moses first appears — where his name is absent. The rabbis connect this to his plea after the Golden Calf: “Erase me from your book.” In this one portion, about preparing others for service, Moses steps back. The spotlight falls entirely on Aaron and his sons.

The ner tamid doesn’t burn once in a dramatic blaze. It burns every night and is rekindled every morning. The anemones don’t bloom to prove anything. They bloom because that’s what anemones do in February in the Negev.

Crushed olives make the clearest oil. The flowers bloom where the worst happened. And the light, if you tend it, does not go out.

Shabbat shalom.

— Uriel ben Avraham

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